Spartan
Spartan
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SPARTAN
15% of Americans
The Lowdown: You are turned on by the raw, physical act of sex: there’s nothing cruel in your aggressive, animalistic urges, but there’s nothing tender, either.
The Partner’s Job: When you are with a Spartan, your job is to surrender to animalistic passion and spontaneity. It’s important for these partners to ensure they have the safety/trust they need to fully “let go.”
Hear a real SPARTAN
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SPARTANS by the Stats
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15% of Americans
12% Women
18% Men
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21% of Gay Men
20% of Lesbian Women
20% of Bisexual Men
17% of Straight Men
15% of Bisexual Women
11% of Straight Women
* We also recorded data from Americans who identified as pansexual, asexual, and (separately) nonbinary, but each of these identifications was so small as to be less than half of our margin of error, so we’re not including this data due to the potential for misrepresenting their views.
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Standout Signs: Aries & Gemini
What spartans fantasize about:
“We are in the bedroom and I slam you down on the bed. I rub your pussy until it's dripping wet and then I slam my fat dick in your pussy while thrusting slowly until your toes curl and you cum.”
- Spartan, to us (33, Man, Heterosexual, Construction Manager)
“I give the guy at the gas station pump next to me the look, he knows the look. I finish pumping and go into the store and ask where the ladies' room is. The kid gives me the key out back. As I turn the corner he's already waiting. I unlock the door and pull him in by his shirt behind me. He locks the door and I'm already halfway undressed, it's filthy and disgusting and I'm already soaking wet. He pushes me over the sink and pulls my pants and underwear down around my knees and starts fucking me from behind. I grab him and push him harder into me. He covers my mouth to stifle my load moans.”
- Spartan, to us (43, Woman, Heterosexual, Courier Worker)
“He throws me up against the tree, my back hitting the truck with force. He rips off my top and immediately attacks my breast lightly teasing my nipple with his teeth. I gasp because it feels so damn good. I went to kiss him and he roughly pushed my head back and lifted my arms above me in the air. He holds me in place as he lifts up my skirt and pushes aggressively inside me. I moan as he fucks me.”
- Spartan, to us (36, Woman, Heterosexual, Patient Services)
Pleasing a spartan
We asked Spartans what specific acts were important to pleasing them in this mode:
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56% of Spartans
35% of Americans
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57% of Spartans
37% of Americans
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57% of Spartans
32% of Americans
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52% of Spartans
47% of Americans
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47% of Spartans
28% of Americans
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49% of Spartans
27% of Americans
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Not all Spartans are the same; some told us they also wanted:
Edging or climax denial
45% Spartans
27% All Americans
Cuddling
40% Spartans
48% All Americans
Acting out specific characters or scenarios (role-playing)
19% Spartans
12% All Americans
Coaching from SPARTANS
• Let animalistic passion drive • Embrace spontaneity in timing and place • Balance assertiveness with partner’s boundaries •
“Lose yourself in pleasure. Must have a partner who knows you and who you can trust.”
- Spartan, to us (64, Woman, Heterosexual, Retail Manager)
“Treat me roughly, but not enough to hurt. Give into your urges and fuck how your gut tells you to.”
- Spartan, to us (20, Woman, Asexual)
“I told him just to relax and let their desire and passion drive them. To trust me and themselves, and not worry about looking foolish or being vulnerable, just to enjoy the sex and enjoy me.”
- Spartan, to us (43, Man, Homosexual, Classical Musician)
Steal a trick
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Watchouts
Avoid the following:
1. Being too rough or too gentle
2. Not establishing the trust for partners to “let go”
3. Bringing “sweetness” or “lovey doveyness” (a few enjoy this)
