Queen's Knight
Queen's Knight
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QUEEN’S KNIGHT
8% of Americans
The Lowdown: You live to serve the one who has power over you — including exerting your power over them when they desire it. In this role, you are both the knight in shining armor and the dark knight, sweeping your partner off their feet and using your strength to dominate.
The Partner’s Job: When you are with a Queen’s Knight, your job as the Queen is to let your partner take you out of your power — to surrender to their leadership, strength, and power.
Hear a real queen’s knight
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queen’s knights by the Stats
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8% of Americans
10% Women
6% Men
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10% of Lesbian Women
10% of Straight Women
7% of Bisexual Women
6% of Straight Men
3% of Gay Men
0% of Bisexual Men
* We also recorded data from Americans who identified as pansexual, asexual, and (separately) nonbinary, but each of these identifications was so small as to be less than half of our margin of error, so we’re not including this data due to the potential for misrepresenting their views.
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Standout Signs: Pisces & Taurus
What QUEEN’S KNIGHTs fantasize about:
“We’re in a secluded garden at twilight, surrounded by tall hedges and the soft glow of lanterns. The air is warm, scented with jasmine, and the only sounds are the rustling of leaves and our quiet breaths. I kneel before them, not out of submission, but because I know that in this moment, I hold the power to please them. They extend a hand, and I take it, pulling them gently towards me. There’s a sense of mutual respect, an unspoken understanding that I serve not out of obligation, but because it brings me joy to meet their desires. As we sit together, I run my fingers lightly along their arm, sensing their reaction, knowing when to be tender and when to apply more pressure. It’s not just about their satisfaction—every gesture, every look exchanged heightens the connection between us. I watch their eyes darken with anticipation, feeling the shift in power between us, subtle and fluid. Eventually, we stand, and I guide them through the garden, their trust in me evident with every step. The night wraps around us like a shared secret, and there’s no rush—only the deep pleasure of knowing that, for now, I am the one they rely on, the one they desire most. It’s a quiet, powerful intimacy that leaves us both feeling fulfilled.”
- Queen’s Knight, to us (24, Man, Heterosexual, Modeling)
“I get close and sit on his lap and cuddle and kiss him. He suggested that we go upstairs. And I say no...it's a time game. I finally give in and go. Upstairs I take his clothes off and go down and kiss him. I have him watch me remove my clothing. I come to him and don't allow touching me. I kiss his entire body slowly and when I get down to his feet. I suck on his toes; this makes him crazy. I am happy when he asks where I learned that...then I come up and gingerly lick his face and ears and he starts to touch me. We fuck for a long time until we are both spent.”
- Queen’s Knight, to us (74, Woman, Heterosexual)
Pleasing a QUEEN’S KNIGHT
We asked Queen’s Knights what specific acts were important to pleasing them in this mode:
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61% of Queen’s Knights
51% of Americans
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62% of Queen’s Knights
40% of Americans
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55% of Queen’s Knights
35% of Americans
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60% of Queen’s Knights
37% of Americans
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44% of Queen’s Knights
20% of Americans
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50% of Queen’s Knights
33% of Americans
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Not all Queen’s Knights are the same; some told us they also wanted:
Your partner cares about your orgasm
68% Queen’s Knights
56% All Americans
Coaching from Queen’s knights
• Communicate your desires clearly • Attune to the shifts in power • Provide affection after •
“I'd force them to tell me what they wanted, and then do it. Fall asleep together afterwards.”
- Queen’s Knight, to us (24, Man, Heterosexual, Modeling)
“During, I appreciate when someone is attuned to the shifts in power and energy. I enjoy when it’s a balance of giving and receiving, where both of us feel in control at different times. I like when my partner takes the time to explore what feels good, rather than rushing into things. Being present, intentional, and responsive to my reactions is key. Don’t be afraid to mix tenderness with assertiveness.”
- Queen’s Knight, to us (24, Man, Heterosexual, Modeling)
“Connection doesn’t end once the physical part is over. Afterward, I’d want intimacy to continue—whether that’s through physical closeness, soft touches, or simply talking. This helps solidify the bond that’s been created and leaves me feeling satisfied on multiple levels.”
- Queen’s Knight, to us
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Watchouts
Avoid the following:
1. Being hesitant to take charge
2. Using degrading names or humiliation
3. Getting too rough or painful
