DARK VIRGIL
DARK VIRGIL
027
DARK VIRGIL
9% of Americans
The Lowdown: You are turned on by leading someone else to their edge. You find pleasure and satisfaction in someone indulging in their “dark side” — all because you showed it to them.
The Partner’s Job: When you are with a Dark Virgil, your job is simply to be open and unapologetic with your desires. This type will ask you to be reflective, curious, open to receive, and ready to give in-real-time feedback.
Hear a real DARK VIRGIL
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DARK VIRGILS by the Stats
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9% of Americans
7% Women
10% Men
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20% of Bisexual Women
13% of Bisexual Men
10% of Lesbian Women
10% of Gay Men
9% of Straight Men
5% of Straight Women
* We also recorded data from Americans who identified as pansexual, asexual, and (separately) nonbinary, but each of these identifications was so small as to be less than half of our margin of error, so we’re not including this data due to the potential for misrepresenting their views.
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Standout Signs: Virgo & Aries
What dark virgils fantasize about:
“My partner has never done something, for one reason or another. Our encounter is intense and I want to do what they have previously refused. Their craving for me, my approval, my pleasure leads them to doubt this limit. As things continue, they are overwhelmed and can't stop craving more sensation, more connection. They have a deep understanding that I am a safe place, a person who can provide opportunities, and not judge performance. They're driven to give me more than they've ever given anyone else. They ask me, shy and uncertain, to do it. I take the lead and they are broken with pleasure. The experience changes their view of the act; it becomes something they love.”
- Dark Virgil, to us (39, Genderfluid, Disabled)
“You’re about to fuck someone who is energized by your pleasure, and inspired by the possibility of pushing your limits — safely, and together. Be honest. Be open. Be curious. Be horny. Be willing to receive. Be unapologetic about your desires and sources of pleasure. Be willing to let go. He’s not interested in going places that you don’t like. So just pause and redirect if it doesn’t feel good. He’s a safe space to explore the things you are scared to admit, and the places you’re scared to go. Do all of this, and he’ll cum like hell every single time.”
- Dark Virgil, to us (35-44, Man, Heterosexual)
“We are somewhere public and she is scared to show a more primal side. I guide my hands beneath her clothes to heighten the intensity of the moment as our eyes are locked. I move behind her in a dark corner of a crowd as I slowly lift the back of her dress and enter her, rocking slowly to the rhythm of the music and the energy of the crowd.”
- Dark Virgil, to us
Pleasing a DARK VIRGIL
We asked Dark Virgils what specific acts were important to pleasing them in this mode:
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62% of Dark Virgils
31% of Americans
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56% of Dark Virgils
28% of Americans
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56% of Dark Virgils
43% of Americans
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51% of Dark Virgils
27% of Americans
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47% of Dark Virgils
23% of Americans
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46% of Dark Virgils
20% of Americans
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Not all Dark Virgils are the same; some told us they also wanted:
Slow, sensual movements
40% Dark Virgils
51% All Americans
Long period of emotional connection
37% Dark Virgils
35% All Americans
Coaching from DARK VIRGILS
• Be clear in your desires and boundaries • Be open to new experiences and experimentation • Give feedback and course corrections • Reflect and share your experience after •
“Give me a replay from inside your head.”
- Dark Virgil, to us (39, Genderfluid, Disabled)
“Submit to our desires to explore, embrace the new experience, share your thoughts about it after so we can lead you somewhere new yet again.”
-Dark Virgil, to us
“Before, be clear and confident in what you like. Have boundaries, but find me irresistible. Make me aware of how I make you feel and your vulnerability with me. Tell me as you begin to change your opinion of the act, as you open yourself to the possibility. Eventually, confess that you want to try it and ask me to do it with you. Be clear that you want this from me and that you really do want it, create a space for my consent or rejection.”
- Dark Virgil, to us (39, Genderfluid, Disabled)
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Watchouts
Avoid the following:
1. Faking pleasure or lying about how into something you are
2. Not giving course corrections if something feels off
3. Letting your own shame or judgment drive
