Dirty Whore
Dirty Whore
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DIRTY WHORE
10% of Americans
The Lowdown: You are turned on by being degraded: you want a partner who can treat you like a “slut,” like a “whore,” who “uses” you for their pleasure.
The Partner’s Job: When you are with a Dirty Whore, your core job is to tap into your dark hunger, taking away control from your partner and “using" them for your pleasure (consensually, of course).
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dirty whores by the Stats
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10% of Americans
13% Women
8% Men
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33% of Bisexual Women
20% of Bisexual Men
17% of Gay Men
10% of Lesbian Women
9% of Straight Women
7% of Straight Men
* We also recorded data from Americans who identified as pansexual, asexual, and (separately) nonbinary, but each of these identifications was so small as to be less than half of our margin of error, so we’re not including this data due to the potential for misrepresenting their views.
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Standout Signs: Libra & Sagittarius
What DIRTY WHORES fantasize about:
“He puts his glass down and brings out the crop. He gives me a spanking to tells me ‘What a bad fat little piggy, not doing as daddy asked and talking back.’ Multiple spankings followed, along with: ‘Now you are going to do what you are useful for and I am going to use your holes as I see fit. This is not for you but for me.’ The way he talks to me makes me drip and he knows it. ‘I can smell you piggy, I know that you are dripping and it makes me happy, but you're a dirty little needy whore with your needy piggy holes, aren’t you?’
He instructs me to get up on the bed on my hands and knees exposing my open holes to him. He enters me and fucks me hard as he hits my cervix, I whine and he goes harder and then stops and says ‘this is mine, you feel that? This belongs to me.’ I beg for my release and he says yes become useful to me as he feels my orgasm. He keeps going until he ends. He tells me to get in the shower where he rubs on my back and gives me kisses, giving me after care including washing me and putting me to bed after he cleaned up the mess. He cuddles with me and gives me love and affection.”
- The Dirty Whore, to us (31, Woman, Bisexual)
“The room was dim, lit only by the faint glow of a bedside lamp. She knelt at the foot of the bed, eyes cast downward, as his footsteps echoed softly across the hardwood floor. He stood over her, a smirk playing at the corners of his lips, watching her like a predator eyeing its prey. ‘You know what you are, don’t you?’ His voice was low, commanding, laced with an edge that made her shiver. She felt her heart race, her skin tingling in anticipation. It was a game they’d played many times before, a script they both knew well. ‘Yes,’ she whispered, the words barely leaving her lips, though the thrill of speaking them sent a rush through her veins. ‘Louder.’ His tone sharpened, and with a slight tug of her hair, he pulled her gaze up to meet his. ‘I’m a dirty whore,’ she said, voice trembling but stronger this time, her face flushing as the words left her. She knew exactly what he wanted to hear, and she gave it to him willingly.
He let out a low chuckle, satisfied with her response. ‘That’s right. And tonight, you’ll prove it.’ His words were rough, dripping with a mix of dominance and challenge, but underneath, there was that unspoken understanding between them — she wanted this, too. Every degrading word he spoke seemed to push her deeper into the headspace they had carefully crafted together, a place where she surrendered control to him. He demanded, and she obeyed, not because she had to, but because it thrilled her to give herself over like this. He relished in the power, but always kept a careful watch on her reactions, making sure she was exactly where she wanted to be, even when the words felt harsh.”
- The Dirty Whore, to us
Pleasing a dirty whore
We asked Dirty Whores what specific acts were important to pleasing them in this mode:
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79% of Dirty Whores
23% of Americans
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78% of Dirty Whores
32% of Americans
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69% of Dirty Whores
37% of Americans
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67% of Dirty Whores
31% of Americans
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61% of Dirty Whores
35% of Americans
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56% of Dirty Whores
20% of Americans
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Not all Dirty Whores are the same; some told us they also wanted:
Cuddling
41% Dirty Whores
48% All Americans
Verbal confessions of love
39% Dirty Whores
33% All Americans
Verbal praise
38% Dirty Whores
30% All Americans
Coaching from DIRTY WHOREs
• Establish clear understanding of wants and boundaries, including safe words • Understand your partner's aftercare needs and take it seriously • Get curious about how to tap into your inner dominating animal •
“If I have to coach them then I am no longer the dirty whore I want to be.”
- The Dirty Whore, to us (30, Man, Gay)
“Literally the dirtier you talk to me the wetter and hornier I get. Degrade me as much as you want. But once we're done I need to be held and reassured I'm loved and wanted.”
- The Dirty Whore, to us (34, Woman, Heterosexual)
“Have protocols in place like safe words, or colors, that keep you in boundaries. No matter how much you like the degradation and being a dirty whore with your partner, it is just as important to get aftercare from them so the words do not affect you after and you don't get depressed.”
- The Dirty Whore, to us (31, Woman, Bisexual)
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Watchouts
Avoid the following:
1. Being too abusive or too soft
2. Assuming your partner’s wants without prior conversation
3. Not providing adequate aftercare
