Marvin Gaye

Marvin Gaye

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MARVIN GAYE

19% of Americans

The Lowdown: You are turned on by gentle, romantic sex; you like the warmup to be slow and comfortable with an air of sensuality.

The Partner’s Job:  When you are with a Marvin Gaye, your core job is to create a comfortable container of safety for heat to build. This will ask you to bring gentleness, romance, and patience.

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MARVIN GAYE
by the Stats

  • 19% of Americans

    24% Women

    15% Men

  • 25% of Lesbian Women

    24% of Straight Women

    21% of Gay Men

    15% of Straight Men

    13% of Bisexual Women

    13% of Bisexual Men


    * We also recorded data from Americans who identified as pansexual, asexual, and (separately) nonbinary, but each of these identifications was so small as to be less than half of our margin of error, so we’re not including this data due to the potential for misrepresenting their views.

  • Standout Signs:Libra & Aries

What MARVIN GAYES fantasize about:

“We are in the bedroom, music is playing softly in the background, lights are turned down low. He approaches me from behind slowly kissing my neck. He turns me around, pushes me against the wall and lifts me up slowly and starts to find his way down to tease and fondle me breathing hard. He carries me to the bed and makes slow hard passionate love to me.”


 - Marvin Gaye, to us (59, Woman, Heterosexual)

“This takes place over a candlelight dinner. I have rose petals leading to the bedroom and bathtub. We approach each other mutually after dinner and proceed to go to the tub first. I remove her garments as I proceed to slowly remove her clothes and perform my act from behind alongside the tub filled with suds and oil. Next we head to the bedroom as we proceed to perform 69 on each other.”

- Marvin Gaye, to us (36, Man, Heterosexual)

“I was with my husband in our apartment. He cared more about pleasing me, than his own pleasure. He began by kissing me gently, caressing my breasts and licking and sucking them gently. He could tell I was scared by rough sex or pain of any kind. He was very gentle and told me he loved me and how beautiful I am. He had a way of using two fingers and his thumb inside my vagina that felt very good. He would get me wet and ready that way and then make love to me, usually in the missionary position, making sure I had an orgasm before he did.”

- Marvin Gaye, to us (70, Woman, Heterosexual)

Pleasing a marvin gaye

We asked Marvin Gayes what specific acts were important to pleasing them in this mode:

    • 74% of Marvin Gayes

    • 51% of Americans

    • 61% of Marvin Gayes

    • 47% of Americans

    • 68% of Marvin Gayes

    • 56% of Americans

    • 58% of Marvin Gayes

    • 43% of Americans

    • 53% of Marvin Gayes

    • 38% of Americans

    • 66% of Marvin Gayes

    • 48% of Americans

  • Not all Marvin Gayes are the same; some told us they also wanted:

    Hair Pulling

    • 35% Marvin Gayes

    • 34% All Americans

    Power dynamic play involving (BDSM)

    • 20% Marvin Gayes

    • 20% All Americans

Coaching from MARVIN GAYEs

• Be gentle and tender • Set a romantic mood • Move slowly and build anticipation •

“Be patient, don't rush. Listen if I tell you to touch me somewhere or move right or left. After the sexual activity, never run away, stay and linger in the actual moment so WE can feel the closeness of one another.”

- Marvin Gaye, to us (61, Woman, Lesbian)

“Take your time. Lots of affection regularly like hand-holding, little kisses. Let the sex happen organically, tender and thoughtful.”

- Marvin Gaye, to us (51, Woman, Heterosexual)

“No pain. No unusual or aggressive sex. Be gentle and take your time. Do not suck on my breasts hard, just lightly and gently. Have some ambiance and romance in the room, candlelight, soft music, etc. Make sure I am wet and ready before insertion; missionary position or me on top, soft romantic music, candlelight, maybe some chocolate-dipped strawberries we both feed each other, telling me I am beautiful and only in the privacy of our home.” 

- Marvin Gaye, to us (70, Woman, Heterosexual)

Steal a trick

Slow dancing as foreplay

Try slowing down the escalation to intercourse and building intimacy with slow dancing: “When I thought he’d throw me to the bed and make love to me, he did something surprising and so, so sexy: he held me in his arms and started dancing with me.” - Emma London

Watchouts


Avoid the following:

1. Escalating too quickly

2. Being too rough

3. Not enough foreplay or warm up

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