Tactile Tease
Tactile Tease
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TACTILE TEASE
15% of Americans
The Lowdown: You are strongly turned on by teasing, gentle touches — fingers, feathers, other soft instruments or light nails: the slightest touch can lead to goosebumps and chills.
The Partner’s Job: When you are with a Tactile Tease, your job is to treat their body like a canvas for touch, and treat time like it doesn't exist. This will ask you to learn your partner’s sensitive areas and tease their senses through soft modes of touching.
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TACTILE TEASES by the Stats
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15% of Americans
18% Women
11% Men
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20% of Lesbian Women
20% of Bisexual Women
19% of Straight Women
13% of Bisexual Men
11% of Straight Men
10% of Gay Men
* We also recorded data from Americans who identified as pansexual, asexual, and (separately) nonbinary, but each of these identifications was so small as to be less than half of our margin of error, so we’re not including this data due to the potential for misrepresenting their views.
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Standout Signs: Capricorn & Aries
What tactile teases fantasize about:
“We’re in our bedroom, cleaning, folding laundry, and joking around with each other. He stands up and steps behind me, putting one hand on my stomach and the other he uses to lightly rake his nails down my bare arm. My nipples tighten and he gently flicks them both before slowly moving both hands down my sides to the hem of my shirt. Both hands go under my shirt and as he rakes his nails across my stomach in soft circles he begins to kiss, lick, and nip my neck and ears. My head falls back to his shoulder and I lift my arms and put my hands in his hair while one of his hands moves up to my breast, teasing and pinching my nipple and the other slowly moves beneath my jeans to my clit.”
- Tactile Tease, to us (50, Woman, Heterosexual, Industrial Admin Maintenance)
“He reaches over and starts rubbing my thigh, reaching under my nightgown. He does this slowly and teasingly for about 10 minutes, slowly going further up my thigh. We start kissing and rubbing against each other and he brushes his hand in just the right place and then takes it away. That makes me grind into him more and more, harder and harder.”
- Tactile Tease, to us (24, Woman, Heterosexual, Nurse)
“We are in a new place and the sun is setting. He approaches me and touches me, teasing me everywhere. I can feel his breath all over my skin and his tongue drives me crazy with desire. He keeps teasing me, taunting me, making me beg for more. I'm in agony with desire until he enters me and fucks me hard.”
- Tactile Tease, to us (31, Woman, Heterosexual)
Pleasing a TACTILE TEASE
We asked Tactile Teases what specific acts were important to pleasing them in this mode:
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71% of Tactile Teases
51% of Americans
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74% of Tactile Teases
59% of Americans
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40% of Tactile Teases
28% of Americans
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43% of Tactile Teases
27% of Americans
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53% of Tactile Teases
40% of Americans
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23% of Tactile Teases
13% of Americans
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Not all Tactile Teases are the same; some told us they also wanted:
Rough handling
37% Tactile Teases
32% All Americans
Coaching from tactile teases
• Leaning and capitalizing on your partner’s sensitive areas • Tease their senses through soft modes of touching • Using fingers, feathers, nails, breath, hot/cold temperatures •
“Slow touching and teasing and kissing everywhere until we are begging slowly for deeper touching. Non-verbal call and response. My nipples and neck are very sensitive in a good way. I like both soft and rough, fast and slow, at different times. You can say anything if it’s genuine.”
- Tactile Tease, to us
“I would say that they have to go slowly and be careful with what they do. They would have to tune into the other person and do everything possible to make it hard for them to focus and concentrate."
- Tactile Tease, to us
“Foreplay should be about teasing the senses — lightly brushing fingers or feathers over the neck, breasts, stomach and upper thighs, not touching any other areas until I’m begging for the touch.”
- Tactile Tease, to us (50, Woman, Heterosexual)
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Watchouts
Avoid the following:
1. Jumping too quickly to intercourse
2. Not staying engaged with building tension
3. Being too rough or moving too quickly
