Pillow Princess

Pillow Princess

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PILLOW PRINCESS

12% of Americans

The Lowdown: For you, being pleased means being spoiled: relaxation, admiration, pampering — it’s all for you. You like your body/pleasure to be the center of the action. 

The Partner’s Job:  When you are with a Pillow Princess, your core job is to make your partner's body the center of the interaction, working to please them while they don't have to lift a finger.

*term originated from the queer community

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pillow princesses by the Stats

  • 12% of Americans

    19% Women

    5% Men

  • 37% of Bisexual Women

    17% of Straight Women

    7% of Gay Men

    7% of Bisexual Men

    5% of Lesbian Women

    5% of Straight Men


    * We also recorded data from Americans who identified as pansexual, asexual, and (separately) nonbinary, but each of these identifications was so small as to be less than half of our margin of error, so we’re not including this data due to the potential for misrepresenting their views.

  • Standout Signs: Leo & Aries

What PILLOW PRINCESSES fantasize about:

“We were making out and he took off every last piece of my clothing, then asked me to wait as he went downstairs. He came back with an old fashioned (my favorite) in a rocks glass and handed it to me, kissed my hand, my neck, and made his way down. He ate me out as I sipped my cocktail and I felt like fucking royalty.”

 - Pillow Princess, to us (28, Woman, Straight)

“Treat me like a man you admire. Someone you feel has done so much for you that you're going to treat him today. Make me a cocktail and tell me you want to go down on me for round one and put on some lingerie for round two. I'm typically the assertive one at work and in our bedroom — it’s nice to be babied a bit every once in a while.”

- Pillow Princess (35-44, Man, Straight)

“He sits on the bed next to me, I’m all dolled up and lying down, waiting for him to make the first move. I wouldn’t dare to, not because I couldn't, but because I simply WON'T. I’ll sit here and look pretty while my boyfriend does the work of fucking and pleasing me and only me.”

 - Pillow Princess, to us (25, Woman, Bisexual)

Pleasing a pillow princess

We asked Pillow Princesses what specific acts were important to pleasing them in this mode:

    • 79% of Pillow Princesses

    • 59% of Americans

    • 63% of Pillow Princesses

    • 51% of Americans

    • 62% of Pillow Princesses

    • 48% of Americans

    • 62% of Pillow Princesses

    • 47% of Americans

    • 69% of Pillow Princesses

    • 56% of Americans

    • 56% of Pillow Princesses

    • 38% of Americans

  • Not all Pillow Princesses are the same; some told us they also wanted:

    Rough handling 

    • 42% Pillow Princesses

    • 32% All Americans

    Spanking (light or hard)

    • 50% Pillow Princesses

    • 37% All Americans

    Hair pulling

    • 46% Pillow Princesses

    • 35% All Americans

Coaching from PILLOW PRINCESSES

• Put full attention on your partner and what pleases them • Give princess treatment including spoiling and acts of service • Prioritize oral technique •

“Bring me flowers and Diet Coke. Having a bubble bath run for me and then taken to bed with candles and low lighting. Soft touches and light kissing. Then oral to get it going.”

- Pillow Princess, to us (31, Woman, Heterosexual)

“A pillow princess wants to feel like royalty being showered in gold by her royal mate. You might find something she loves, which could be as simple as a platter of fruit or a cocktail and let her lay back. You might run her a bath or give her a foot rub. Maybe it’s making her space look beautiful. She’s looking to feel her inner goddess, so look at her like one.”

- Pillow Princess, to us

“Pay attention to how my body reacts.”

- Pillow Princess, to us (41, Woman, Lesbian)

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Watchouts


Avoid the following:

1. Being too rough or rushing

2. Talking too much

3. For women, not focusing on the clit

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