uncaged
uncaged
025
UNCAGED
8% of Americans
The Lowdown: For you, the permission, the opportunity, the freedom to pursue your desires is as pleasing — or even more pleasing — than pleasure itself; you want to let go, break free — and you’ll do almost anything to get it.
The Partner’s Job: When you are with an Uncaged, your job is to bring openness and intensity, to facilitate the throwing off of shackles to ravage or be ravaged.
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UNCAGEDs by the Stats
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8% of Americans
7% Women
10% Men
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20% of Bisexual Men
15% of Bisexual Women
10% of Straight Men
6% of Straight Women
5% of Lesbian Women
3% of Gay Men
* We also recorded data from Americans who identified as pansexual, asexual, and (separately) nonbinary, but each of these identifications was so small as to be less than half of our margin of error, so we’re not including this data due to the potential for misrepresenting their views.
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Standout Signs: Leo
What uncageds fantasize about:
“I'm looking to lose myself, let go of control, and get ‘fucked stupid’. I want to see stars. I want my brain to puke up a whole lot of neurotransmitters."
- Uncaged, to us (25-34, Gender fluid, Heterosexual)
“As he and I sit in silence the sexual tension is filling the room to the point I want to scream. I finally take control of the situation. I walk slowly and confidently behind him and I take my scarf off and wrap it around his eyes and before he says a word I tell him to shut his filthy mouth. I walk to the front of him and begin to tease him by nibbling on his ear and stroking his already hard member and I can feel his body quivering it as if he is putty in my hands. He allows me to take his belt off and I start sucking his member sort of soft and gentle and I tell him to take control of my head and use it to his liking and he fucks my mouth harder and harder till I can feel him in the back of my throat. It doesn't take long and he is already cumming in my throat. As he gets off I get off, not physically but mentally, bringing him pleasure and excitement.”
- Uncaged, to us (40, Woman, Heterosexual, Customer Service Representative)
“This person cannot ‘let loose’ in their everyday lives. Sometimes they are conservative, or married, or public figures, or just very uptight. They want to ‘go crazy’ in bed. They like to fuck HARD and wild. Sometimes they need to get super drunk or high to let loose, but for them, the pleasure is in the letting go, not so much the sex.”
- Uncaged, to us (45-54, Woman, Bisexual)
Pleasing an uncaged
We asked Uncageds what specific acts were important to pleasing them in this mode:
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57% of Uncageds
32% of Americans
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60% of Uncageds
37% of Americans
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45% of Uncageds
23% of Americans
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50% ofUncageds
30% of Americans
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37% of Uncageds
20% of Americans
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51% of Uncageds
31% of Americans
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Not all Uncageds are the same; some told us they also wanted:
Acting out specific characters or scenarios (role-playing)
29% Uncageds
12% All Americans
Slow, sensual movements
53% Uncageds
51% All Americans
Restricting senses (blindfold)
27% Uncageds
13% All Americans
Coaching from uncageds
• Be a safe container for them to unleash • Understand that “letting go” will look different for every person • Bring curiosity, openness, willingness to experiment •
“I would tell them to build me up by teasing me and spanking me and then tell them to drop to their knees and please me with their filthy mouth as I did with mine.”
- Uncaged, to us (40, Woman, Heterosexual)
“Just to let her be as nasty as she can be and don't hold anything back”
- Uncaged, to us (35, Man, Heterosexual, Chef)
“Eye contact is huge, light choking right as I'm getting off, submission on both ends, I like being tied up and I like tying them up as well, I enjoy watching porn with one another and exploring masturbation while doing so and keeping eye contact but I have to know my partner in order to be my true self. I enjoy trying new things but I don't always like them but you never know till you try it.”
- Uncaged, to us
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Watchouts
Avoid the following:
1. Bringing judgmental energy
2. Struggling to let yourself go
3. Being unclear on either of your boundaries
