Watch Me
Watch Me
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WATCH ME
9% of Americans
The Lowdown: You are turned on by being watched and admired in states of undress, pleasure, or sex acts.
The Partner’s Job: When you are with a Watch Me, your job is to find creative ways to observe and admire your partner’s body, movements, and expressions. Watch them like they are your greatest muse.
Hear a real WATCH ME
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WATCH MEs by the Stats
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9% of Americans
9% Women
8% Men
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24% of Bisexual Women
13% of Bisexual Men
10% of Lesbian Women
8% of Straight Men
7% of Straight Women
3% of Gay Men
* We also recorded data from Americans who identified as pansexual, asexual, and (separately) nonbinary, but each of these identifications was so small as to be less than half of our margin of error, so we’re not including this data due to the potential for misrepresenting their views.
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Standout Signs: Leo, Aries, Gemini, Sagittarius
What WATCH MES fantasize about:
“Laying in the room with sheer curtains around me not being able to touch me [but you] are right there watching everything.”
- Watch Me, to us
“Him peeking through the shower while I'm playing with myself.”
- Watch Me, to us
“Having sex in a mall bathroom and someone walks in and we don't stop.”
- Watch Me, to us (48, Woman, Unsure, Cashier)
Pleasing a WATCH ME
We asked Watch Mes what specific acts were important to pleasing them in this mode:
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37% of Watch Mes
20% of Americans
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58% of Watch Mes
38% of Americans
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60% of Watch Mes
51% of Americans
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59% of Watch Mes
47% of Americans
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63% of Watch Mes
56% of Americans
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23% of Watch Mes
12% of Americans
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Not all Watch Mes are the same; some told us they also wanted:
Frequent Check-ins
27% Watch Mes
17% All Americans
Rough handling
43% Watch Mes
32% All Americans
Long period of emotional connection
51% Watch Mes
35% All Americans
Coaching from WATCH MES
• Show enjoyment in watching your partner • Give detailed observations • Long, deep eye contact •
“Don't take your eyes off me, get drunk.”
- Watch Me, to us (44, Woman, Heterosexual)
“I would tell him that I need him to see me, whenever he sees how I am, my face, my facial expressions, to understand that I love that they see that I like what they are doing to me.”
- Watch Me, to us (26, Woman, Heterosexual, Social Worker)
“Look closely. Comment often.”
- Watch Me, to us (37, Woman, Bisexual, Janitor)
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Watchouts
Avoid the following:
1. Moving too quickly, missing opportunities for admiration
2. Rushing the undressing process
