Daddy/Mommy
Daddy/Mommy
016
DADDY/MOMMY
8% of Americans
The Lowdown: You enjoy playing caretaker and boundary holder; you want to play the role as the more experienced partner, but with a soft style that includes lots of praise, affirmation, and validation.
The Partner’s Job: When you are with a Daddy/Mommy, your job is to listen to your partner's instructions/direction and show your enthusiasm. The best partners are ones who bring an authentic desire to please.
*term originated from kink community
Hear a real daddy/mommy
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DADDYS/MOMMYs by the Stats
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8% of Americans
5% Women
10% Men
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20% of Bisexual Men
14% of Gay Men
13% of Bisexual Women
10% of Lesbian Women
9% of Straight Men
4% of Straight Women
* We also recorded data from Americans who identified as pansexual, asexual, and (separately) nonbinary, but each of these identifications was so small as to be less than half of our margin of error, so we’re not including this data due to the potential for misrepresenting their views.
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Standout Signs: Libra & Aquarius
What DADDYS/MOMMYs fantasize about:
“We are preparing to perform a sexual act that we haven’t done together or aren’t familiar with. I will guide and help my partner through it to ensure they are comfortable and can anticipate what my intentions are. Then I will carefully begin to act and guide along with my hands and eye contact.”
- Daddy/Mommy, to us
“She came into the room naked and with a mischievous grin. She came close and pressed her body against me and whispered in my ear "What can I do to please you?" At my direction she lowers to her knees and begins orally satisfying me.”
- Daddy/Mommy, to us (50, Man, Heterosexual, Retail Sales)
“I bent my girl over at a skatepark bathroom one time. She kept crying about being hot outside and whatnot, so I told her, let's get hot INSIDE. She laughed and pulled me in the bathroom right, I bent her ass over and started railing the fuck outta her.”
- Daddy/Mommy, to us (22, Man, Heterosexual, Teacher)
Pleasing a DADDY/MOMMY
We asked Daddys/Mommys what specific acts were important to pleasing them in this mode:
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65% of Daddys/Mommys
48% of Americans
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57% of Daddys/Mommys
24% of Americans
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56% of Daddys/Mommys
23% of Americans
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56% of Daddys/Mommys
37% of Americans
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44% of Daddys/Mommys
20% of Americans
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48% of Daddys/Mommys
30% of Americans
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37% of Daddys/Mommys
17% of Americans
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Not all Daddys/Mommys are the same, some told us they also wanted:
Tickling
27% Daddys/Mommys
13% All Americans
Coaching from daddys/mommys
• Begin with an authentic desire to please • Follow your partner’s instructions • Use words like “Daddy” or “Mommy” seductively •
“She starts by softly touching my body, then kisses me from my mouth down my body. When she reaches my dick, she makes love to it. She mounts me and fucks me, slowly increasing her speed until she is fucking me hard and fast. We orgasm together then lay and cuddle.”
- Daddy/Mommy, to us
“I like being called mami and talking like she’s whining.”
- Daddy/Mommy, to us (18, Woman, Lesbian, Daycare Worker)
“Most importantly, they should express happiness to give me pleasure.”
- Daddy/Mommy, to us (50, Man, Heterosexual)
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Watchouts
Avoid the following:
1. Not being in the fantasy or taking it literally
2. Not listening or being “submissive”
3. Not clearly communicating boundaries
